Learning to self-manage emotions, attention, and behaviors is a critical developmental milestone of childhood. But as children are increasingly exposed to screens at young ages, parents and healthcare providers are left with a pressing question: How is early digital media use shaping children’s ability to self-regulate?
Children and Screens held the first of its two-part #AskTheExperts webinar series on digital media and youth self-regulation, “Meltdowns to Mindfulness – Self-Regulation in a Digital World,” on Wednesday, April 22, 2026. The series kicked off with Part 1, focused on early childhood (ages 0-9). A panel of child development experts, researchers, and clinicians explored:
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- How self-regulation skills develop across early childhood, and what parents can do to promote them.
- The risks of using screens to pacify a young child, and how to foster healthy emotion regulation skills.
- How screen use impacts children’s school readiness and their ability to manage tasks and focus.
- How to avoid and reduce screen-related behavioral dysregulation.
Resources Mentioned During the Webinar
- Relations between Preschool Attention Span-Persistence and Age 25 Educational Outcomes (Scholarly Article)
- Vroom! (Tool/App)
- Mind in the Making (Website)
- Stop, Think, Act! Promoting Self-Regulation in the Early Childhood Classroom (Book)
- Harvard Center for the Developing Child Executive Function Activities Guide (Toolkit/Parent Guide)
- Waiting Is Not Easy (Book)
- Practice Guide: Preparing Young Children for School (Toolkit/Parent Guide)
- Screen Time and Executive Function in Toddlerhood: A Longitudinal Study (Scholarly Article)
- Screen media exposure and young children's vocabulary learning and development: A meta-analysis (Scholarly Article)
- Associations Between Screen Use and Child Language Skills: A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis (Scholarly Article)
- Effects of Media Use on School Readiness (Scholarly Article)
- The Sisyphean Cycle of Technology Panics (Scholarly Article)
- Assessment of Screen Exposure in Young Children, 1997 to 2014 (Scholarly Article)
- The 5Cs of Media Use: User Guides for Clinicians and Parents (Toolkit/Parent Guide)
- Child and Family Blog (Website)
- The Baby Blog (Website)
00:00:00 – Introductions by Executive Director of Children and Screens Kris Perry.
00:01:29 – Moderator Megan McClelland on the development of self regulation during early childhood.
00:13:55 – Peter Reschke on fostering emotion regulation skills in young children and the role of digital media.
00:26:34 – Moderator follow-up: What are some strategies parents can use to regulate their own device use?
00:29:34 – Andy Ribner on the impact of screens on executive functioning, cognition, and school readiness.
00:41:29 – Moderator follow-up: How do different types of screen media and content affect self-regulation?
00:45:07 – Gabrielle Izralson on screen-related dysregulation and strategies for parents.
01:03:24 – The panel addresses questions from the audience.
01:03:44 – Q&A: Is it a bad thing to give phones to toddlers at a restaurant or at a doctor’s office?
01:04:51 – Q&A: Does the risk of giving a baby or a toddler a device to calm them down outweigh the benefit of parents’ peace of mind?
01:06:08 – Q&A: For parents who have been using digital media as a regulating strategy already, how should they stop this?
01:08:51 – Q&A: What does counterfactual mean?
01:12:17 – Q&A: How do we navigate screen time with children who are diagnosed with ADHD or autism?
01:16:20 – Q&A: Is it best to allow controlled screen time so that a child can become used to ending screen time, thereby developing a form of self-regulation?
01:17:42 – Q&A: Does having a reward system that gives tablet time for tasks negatively impacts self regulation?
01:18:44 – Q&A: What should parents do if there is too much screen time at school? How is this impacting their child’s self-regulation?
01:22:10 – Q&A: The panel shares final thoughts.
01:23:44 – Wrap-up with Children and Screens’ Executive Director Kris Perry.
A full transcript for this webinar will be made available soon.